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The Leadership Jump Building
Partnerships Between Existing and Emerging Christian Leaders Jimmy
Long IVP Books,
2009, 205 pp., ISBN 978-0-8308-3364-1 |
Jimmy Long is a regional director for
InterVarsity Christian Fellowship and the author of several books and
resources. He has served as a long
term elder in his church as well as in leadership with InterVarsity for
perhaps more than 30 years. As he has
become an older leader he has continued to work with younger generations of
leaders as the culture and adult generations have changed. While agreeing heartily with the thrust of
the book, I often felt compelled to push back. See my comments scattered throughout and at
the end. Chapter
1. The Leadership Dilemma While the world is reeling from failed leadership
we have a shortage of capable leaders and a growing gap between existing and
emerging leaders. Too frequently,
unable to work together, they part ways.
Long insists that older leaders must be willing to give up the
stability and predictability of the past and give up control to empower
younger leaders. Not likely a smooth
transition, this is a redirection. One of my complaints is putting the overwhelming share of
the burden on older leaders. Much less
is said about younger leaders adjusting, learning, and earning the right to
be heard and lead. dlm Chapter
2. The Church's Dilemma Question:
How do your church leaders need to change to minister and lead in the
emerging culture? We cannot lead from outside the culture. We must lead from within. (24)
We have moved from the compartmentalized, organized world of the
Berlin Wall to the boundary-free world of the Web. Authority and leadership are moving from
hierarchical rules, roles, structures, reason, and plans to a culture of networking,
permission giving and empowerment, sometimes observed as chaos, confusion and
complexity. The church must move from
a "ghetto" or "gated community" to a Kingdom outpost of
compassion and agents of change in the community. (26) Leaders must change before others will
change. We need leaders like Peter,
who recognizing God's hand, moved the church beyond being simply a Jewish
cult. "Older existing leaders should recognize
that they must both unlearn old habits and learn new strategies if they are
going to be successful leaders in the emerging culture." (32) Emerging leaders must help interpret the
culture, receive a sense of history and tradition from older leaders and be
patient. (33) "Some existing leaders fear that the
emerging leaders…are selling out to the emerging culture. They are becoming emerging churches
absorbed by the culture…." (36) "We have to…be willing to develop a new
understanding of what is going on."
"…existing and emerging leaders need each other. We need the maturity, wisdom and order of
the existing leaders, and we need the imagination, creativity and chaos of
the emerging leaders." (39) We need new understanding and eventually new
models. Instead of forecasting we need
foresight, the ability to see what is emerging. (41) Chapter
3. From Heroic to Post-Heroic
Leadership Heroic leadership is the John Wayne,
"follow-me" style, people like Abraham, Jacob, Moses, Joshua and
David. Long suggests that the modern church has
emphasized a corporate culture of clear mission, goals and progress. The senior pastor assumes hierarchical
authority. This leads to staff members
operating independently in silos of ministry.
Power and authority are characteristics of the past while character,
influence and relational ability are increasing in importance. The emerging culture does not trust heroic
leaders. The leader depends more on
collaborative efforts in a team environment.
Shared leadership in flatter organizations with more flexibility and
room for initiative are required today.
The new senior leader must develop a strong leadership team of people
with mutual influence who can create and implement ideas to move forward
toward a common vision. (53) This is
more in line with the early church versus the Old Testament heroes. (54) Leaders must acknowledge and respect their
limitations as well as their gifts. (56)
The church can react to the changing culture more effectively as the
right people in decentralized forms exercise their agility, flexibility,
proactivity and autonomy. (58) Instead of the charismatic builder, the senior
pastor serves as an architect who invites others into the process of
building, empowering others to do the ministry. Like mountain climbers, people will not
"clip onto a rope" with leaders whose decisions they don't
trust. Mountain climbers are teams who
pursue a mission or purpose together.
Leadership is all about serving the team, facilitating decision processes. The decisions reside in the team. Leading is not "follow me," but serving
and empowering others. Long suggests this was Jesus' style. He didn't demand power but gave it up to
serve his disciples. (61) [It is obviously true that Jesus cared for and served his
disciples - even unto death. On the
other side, Jesus said, "I am the way," "follow me." He also received his authority from his
Father and passed it on to his disciples.
As far as we know he gave them instructions for going out, rather than
having a discussion to get their input on the destination and the journey. These are examples, of course, of hierarchy
rather than collaboration.] Chapter
4. From Guarded to Vulnerable Older leaders tend to be cautious about sharing
information. Long says business leaders
project being in charge, having the answers, being calm and having self-assurance. Younger leaders see this as a mask of
invincibility that isolates them. By
contrast Paul led through his weakness made strong in Christ. Leaders must be vulnerable and admit
weaknesses, which gives more freedom for people to be themselves. (68) "The people we lead need to see us for
who we are." (79) "Emerging
leaders are crying out for an environment where the existing leaders and they
can develop trust through vulnerability." (72) Jesus demonstrated this. He came with humility and
vulnerability. "Clearly, demonstrating strengths lends
leaders legitimacy--but not if weaknesses are denied." (73, quoting
Goffee and Jones). "Vulnerability
is a hallmark of leadership in the emerging culture." (74) "Part of...approachability comes from
leaders admitting when they have made mistakes and asking for
forgiveness." (74) "These
relationships, built on integrity, trust and honesty, become more like a
covenant." (76) Vulnerability is developed by spending time
together as a team in a variety of venues getting to know one another,
sharing our lives and praying for one another. (79) "Within this climate of suspicion,
postmoderns above everything else want to experience authenticity. They are interested not so much in our truth
claims as in the extent to which our lives correspond to the truth we
proclaim." (81, quoting Eddie Gibbs, Leadership
Next) Leaders are valued for their
character and example. (82) Chapter
5. From Positional Authority to Earned
Authority Emerging leaders want their leaders to "earn
their trust." They are skeptical
toward all types of hierarchical or formal authority. [Or perhaps any authority and may expect more
trust-earning from others than from themselves. dlm] "In the emerging culture, the most
important quality of a leader is the ability to give up one's power and
replace it with compassion." (94)
"Emerging leaders reject positional authority in favor of
relational authority." (96)
"Leadership comes when power is shared rather than authority
exerted." (97) "They are
looking for leaders who lead more by relational persuasion than by
command." Trust is the foundation
and it has to be earned. (99) [If this were a young leader speaking, I would perceive it
as all one way. "You, my leader,
must listen to me, care for me, share your authority with me, persuade me,
and do not give me any orders, for goodness sake, for I would certainly
reject that." Because the author
is in the older leader's position, I recognize that he is simply interpreting
the situation as he experiences it.
Still, if the topic is building partnership among older and younger
leaders, I wonder what is the responsibility for the younger leader to earn
trust, learn from experience, accept correction, etc.?] Chapter
6. From Task to Community Community is the key ingredient to accomplish the
task. In modern culture, we relied on
hard data to measure progress toward grandiose goals such as church
growth. However changed values and
changed practices are some of the "soft stuff" necessary to be the
community God desires. Leadership
must change from goal-driven to relationship-driven. "We have to make sure we are loving
people and not using them, caring for people more than our goals."
(107) The Great Commission has been the rallying cry
for evangelism. It is task oriented
with an emphasis on 'go.' "For
many reasons the rallying cry of the Great Commission has lost some of its
luster in this emerging culture."
"We just need to emphasize a new rallying cry that has a more
relational dimension." "When
Jesus was asked what was the greatest commandment, he did not quote what we
know as the Great Commission."
Instead he quoted the Great Commandment. "The most powerful apologetic for the
gospel today is true Christian community." "Task is not negated. It just flows out of community." "In the emerging culture context,
community is essential to accomplishing the task." (110-111)
[I would have appreciated some
acknowledgement of the "all nations" aspect of The Great Commission
and how that part relates to the discussion. Dlm] Today's leader is more a gardener than an
architect. Communities grow rather
than being built. Gardeners are
flexible and patient, with no guarantees.
One emerging leader states: "We measure our
success by our ability to maintain relationships rather than an arbitrary
mission…." (121) Younger leaders
want to work in community and also set the agenda. (121)
[Might there sometimes be confusion about what
mission is arbitrary and what is biblically mandated?] Chapter
7. From Directing to Empowering [Does it have to
be either/or? Dlm] Some leaders believe the senior pastor should be
the primary vision caster and others are to implement the vision. Younger leaders want more ownership in
collectively developing the vision.
Too many church leaders are operating more like CEOs than shepherds,
using a business model of control to produce numeric growth. However some younger leaders know how to
drive better in this new culture.
"Learning should replace control as the fundamental job of
leadership." "As they make
suggestions for change, they run up against a brick wall of the existing
leaders who are not willing to make the necessary changes." "If we do not empower the emerging
leaders of the future, they will walk away…" (132-33) [This is no doubt true in many situations. But just as we all know controlling
leaders, we have also seen young, inexperienced adults who think they have
all the answers and should be listened to as experts while they are not open
to correction and learning themselves.
The errors go both ways. I'm
sure the author acknowledges this. Dlm] "Existing leaders will have to be
givers. They will give away power,
give away control and give themselves away to others." (136) "In addition to being a servant
leader, the existing leader has to be willing to share leadership with the
emerging leaders." (138) "To become true partners in leadership, both
existing and emerging leaders should listen to each other." (141)
Both need to admit they need each others. "The existing leader becomes much more of a
guide than a general." "The
emerging leaders will need to have patience.
They must understand that they still have a lot to learn from older,
wiser existing leaders." (144-45) [Oh, here it
is.] Chapter
8. From Destination to Journey [As soon as I read the chapter title,
this question popped into my mind: If
it's all about the journey and not about the destination, do you need a
leader? In this chapter, Long refers to a destination as represented by a
master plan or a map in contrast to a journey represented by a vision and a
compass. It seems to me that destination
and journey are not proper opposites and that the conversation is more about
how we make progress. We need adjustable,
flexible plans based on a changing landscape rather than detailed and
inflexible long range plans based on history. Chapter
9. From Aspiring to Inspiring More young people feel inadequate to lead, are
overwhelmed by their baggage and fear that becoming a leader will separate
them from the community. Many have a
whole set of developmental needs and would not have been considered
leadership material in the past. Many
are full of passion but unfocused. We
need hinge leaders who can move between existing and merging leaders, holding
in tension the best of both. Emerging leaders need to be passionately
committed to helping the existing church transition into a new way of doing
ministry. They need patience and they
need to recognize they have something to learn from existing leaders. Epilogue "Many existing leaders are concerned that
the emerging leaders will not only seize the opportunity to minister within
the emerging culture but also will be seized by the culture and become
absorbed by the culture. On the other
hand, emerging leaders are getting impatient with the existing leaders who
are standing outside, afraid to enter into the emerging culture lest they get
tainted." (187) [We always face the
tension of how to be in the culture
but not of it. Somehow we older North American Christians
tend toward being of the culture
while not in it, whereas many
younger Christians seem to be of it
and in it! dlm] * * * * Some additional thoughts: There seems to be a good deal of
whining by young people that they aren't listened to or treated with respect
(i.e. as experts), even if they have little experience or expertise. Among them are those who are products of
broken homes and dysfunctional families, who have never had people who truly
cared for them and taken their best interest to heart. Another subset includes those who have been
idolized from birth and have come to a very high opinion of themselves. Both tend to have authority issues. In order to show the contrast in
leadership styles, Long seems to have lumped older leaders into the
hierarchical command and control model.
Of course, there are many such
leaders, but there are also a great number of older leaders who are much more
caring and collaborative. Long blames secular management for the
command and control leadership style. It
may perhaps be more a military model.
While many secular leaders exhibit the qualities he decries, the secular
leadership and management literature have been promoting shared leadership, emotional
intelligence, transparency, vulnerability, good listening, trustworthiness, even
love and care for 50 years beginning with Douglas McGregor's The Human Side of Enterprise published
in 1960. I wonder how Long would view today's
college or professional sports coaches as models for the younger adult
generations. Coaches often have to
meld into a team a number of players who have been idolized and pampered and
help them sacrifice their personal desires for the good of the team. Many who think they are above teaching must
be taught the fundamentals. While
appreciating and caring for the players, the coach must insist on his own way
based on the experience he has that the players have not. The coach has very little leverage over the
players who are often very much in demand.
A successful sports coach must indeed be a wizard. |
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